Civil marriage or union
You may be legally married even if you use “partner” daily. Obtain the certificate and confirm the property regime.
Will for unmarried couples South Africa
A shared home and shared expenses do not write estate instructions for you. Each partner should record who inherits, who may live in the home, who handles the estate and how children or other dependants are protected.
Current law can recognise a surviving partner in a permanent life partnership with reciprocal duties of support for intestate succession. That is not a reason to rely on intestacy. The status and facts may need proof after death, while a valid will records your own instructions in advance.
Wills & Trust provides intake and referral only. It does not decide legal status or ownership, draft wills or provide legal, tax, insurance or financial advice. Those responsibilities belong to the independent provider identified at handoff.

Start with legal status
Registration, ceremony, custom, duration, support arrangements and the governing statute can change the answer.
You may be legally married even if you use “partner” daily. Obtain the certificate and confirm the property regime.
Do not assume missing registration or a religious-only ceremony ends the legal enquiry. Recognition needs fact-specific review.
The Intestate Succession Act includes a partner in a permanent life partnership with reciprocal duties of support. Whether the facts meet that test can require evidence.
Living together for a set number of years does not by itself prove every legal consequence. Record ownership and estate intentions.
Section 14 of the Judicial Matters Amendment Act 15 of 2023 added section 1(1A) to the Intestate Succession Act. Section 15 also amended the Maintenance of Surviving Spouses Act. These targeted changes should not be described as a complete default property system for every unmarried couple.
One relationship, two testamentary decisions
Each partner gives independent instructions about their own estate. Plan both documents together so the home, children, debts and backup beneficiaries work coherently.
Identify the partner and deliberate gifts. Add substitutes if a beneficiary dies first, disclaims or cannot receive a benefit.
Nominate an executor and backup for each estate. Choose trustees for the role rather than assuming one person should do everything.
Confirm parentage and parental responsibilities. Separate guardian nominations from inheritance management. See the child testamentary trust guide.
Review policy nominations, Pension Funds Act section 37C records, co-ownership agreements, leases and trust deeds separately.
Coordinate residue, substitutes and children's inheritance if both partners die together or close in time.
There is no equivalent of the Wills Act's narrow divorce treatment for the end of an unmarried relationship. Review both wills promptly if the relationship ends.
The shared-home question
Start with the title deed, bond, purchase agreement and contribution records. Daily language such as “our house” does not answer ownership.
The will may leave the property, a share or a limited occupation right, subject to debt, liquidity, formal transfer and enforceable claims. Specialist wording should define duration, costs and termination.
Each can generally deal only with their share. Decide whether the survivor inherits, buys the share, occupies temporarily or sells with the estate, and how the bond is serviced.
Obtain legal advice on ownership or reimbursement claims. A cohabitation agreement may record arrangements, but it does not replace a will.
Use the right document
Process, cost and proof
Gather certificates, ceremony or customary facts, support arrangements and any cohabitation agreement.
List registered owners, debts, nominations, the home, business, trusts and foreign assets.
Each partner chooses beneficiaries, roles, child protection and separation outcomes.
Execute each will correctly, store originals and update separate records through their own processes.
No verified fixed couple-will price exists in the repository. Ask what covers two wills, status review, home clauses, agreements, child trusts, tax input, signing and storage.
No completion time is guaranteed. Ask for a written estimate after conflict checks and document review.
Confirm the drafter, firm, role, relevant status, complaints route and responsibility for signing instructions.
Client proof: no permissioned, traceable unmarried-couple will case study exists in the repository, so none is implied.
Common questions
The current Intestate Succession Act includes a partner in a permanent life partnership with reciprocal duties of support. Whether the facts meet that test can require evidence. A valid will avoids leaving chosen distribution to intestacy and a possible status dispute.
Do not use that label as a shortcut. Cohabitation alone does not create a general marriage property regime merely because a set number of years passed. Ceremony, custom, contracts and targeted statutes may still matter.
Not automatically. Two coordinated wills preserve independent instructions and are usually easier to update. Joint terms, massing and later revocation require tailored advice.
No. It may record ownership or support arrangements, but estate distribution still needs a valid will and separate nominations need their own updates.
Start with status and the home
Use this only for routing. The independent provider should identify itself and offer a secure channel before you send certificates, agreements or financial records.
This page cannot establish relationship status, reciprocal support, ownership, parentage, maintenance claims or validity. Disputes, foreign assets and specialist tax questions need tailored advice.
Prepare existing wills, certificates, relationship and support records, agreements, title and bond records, family details, asset and debt schedules, trust and company documents, policy and fund nominations.